Family support category
Find the right mothers' help for your family.
ParentPatch helps families understand when mothers' help may fit, compare service types, and prepare clearer questions before booking support.
What is a mother's help?
Use this definition to understand the support before you compare practitioners or book an appointment.
Mother's help
Hands-on home support
A paid helper who comes into your home to take care of the practical things so you can focus on your baby and yourself. Unlike a nanny, they work alongside you rather than taking sole charge - they might hold the baby while you shower, do a load of washing, cook a meal, or help with older children.
Questions to ask before booking
Do you have a DBS check, paediatric first aid, and references I can speak to - ideally from families with a newborn?
Are you flexible on hours, and what's the minimum booking - can I call on you for a single morning, or do you need a regular commitment?
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